I have very little patience for people who constantly blame others for their mistakes. If you made a bad choice, own it, admit it, and learn from it. Stop making the same mistakes and expecting a different result. Jumping in head first to relationships is ok when you’re single. Yes you may get hurt, but all in all you will be ok. When you have kids, you’ve got to think differently. Be cautious, be nervous and go slow. The last thing children need is a new man to constantly be walking out of their lives. Just take your time. If it’s meant to be, there will be plenty of time to introduce your children and create a family. Go slow.